Hockliffe Street Baptist Church, Leighton Buzzard
Colin Johnson, Neighbourhood Chaplain, Hockliffe Street Baptist Church, Leighton Buzzard.
I first learned about The Bereavement Journey® from a friend. I was impressed with the content of the videos and the gentle tone in every presentation. The tone seemed appropriate—almost perfect—for the subject of loss. I have been running The Bereavement Journey® for the past nine months and have held it three times during that period.
My Experience Running the Course
In my experience of leading the programme I’ve noticed a few things:
People are often nervous and unsure of what to expect. Because of this, I have found it helpful to provide constant reassurance to those grieving, ensuring they know it’s okay to feel the way they do. It’s important for them to realize there is no “right” way to grieve, that there is no pressure to relate to the entire course, and that they are free to engage with and benefit from the sections that specifically relate to their circumstances.
I have built a good relationship with our local library and have held the last couple of courses there. The local library has been very supportive, providing us with a room at no charge. Some of the referrals to The Bereavement Journey® have come through marketing materials displayed there. Other referrals come through GP surgeries, social prescribers, and health and wellbeing coaches.
I usually advertise in a local magazine, which is delivered across the entire town. Additionally, I mention our courses twice a month in an article I write for a local newspaper.
Participant Feedback
We have received such wonderful feedback from past participants. Below are some of their best quotes:
“I got a lot of support from the course and from the ladies who attended. I would urge anyone to go along.”
“I found the course very helpful, and it gave me a lot of support. When you have lost someone so close to you, it’s hard to come to terms with it, but meeting others who have also experienced loss makes you feel you’re not alone and helps you cope better.”
“At first, I was reluctant to attend, but I’m glad I did. It gave me a chance to talk about my feelings of loss and receive support from others, which continues in times of need.”
“The sessions have been incredibly helpful. But I think the most valuable part has been having people to talk to—people who truly understand what it’s like to grieve for someone close.”
“I didn’t understand that loss and grief have so many facets.”
“The sessions and their impact have been so valuable.”
“What would I say to someone thinking of joining? Just do it! There is nothing to lose and so much to gain.”
“It became a Thursday safe space—a chance to say, ‘Yes, if I’m not in a good place today, or if I’m angry, fed up, or missing someone, it’s okay.’ It was truly a non-judgemental two hours, without feeling the need to always say that everything was fine.
The videos were well done, and breaking into small groups to discuss them was helpful. It’s always good to hear other people’s stories, and there was never any pressure to talk.”